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A Young Woman Needs Treatment for Her Manic Depression, For Her Substance Abuse, and For Her Personal Success and Happiness Problems

Saturday, May 8th, 2010
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About seven weeks ago I heard about a twenty-two-year-old woman named Rachael who is bipolar and who is also addicted to alcohol and drugs. I remember reading that under such circumstances, an individual needs to get treatment for both medical problems and that mental health problems and dependency frequently take place in the same person. Moreover, I recollect hearing that a history of negative drinking, drug abuse, and/or mental health problems commonly happen in the same family.

Obviously, Rachael is so dejected by both of her medical issues and by her spirituality problems that she, for all intents and purposes, has no impetus to complete much of anything. What is particularly sad about this is that earlier in her life, Rachael finished two years of college. Rachael’s situation makes me wonder if she is an example of a person who has to hit the very bottom before he or she gets alcohol and drug addiction treatment that results in long lasting sobriety.

The Need For a Doctor She Trusts and a Counseling Program She Can Believe In

If I were in contact with Rachael I could suggest quite a lot of websites that could possibly help her find info about addiction and alcoholic behavior, pertinent substance abuse information, facts about alcoholism and drugs, and more information about addiction symptoms and alcoholism warning signs. In my honest opinion, however, Rachael needs to find a physician she trusts and a counseling program she can believe in and follow over the long term. I could be mistaken but it seems to me that Rachael probably needs to understand the fact that she cannot drink responsibly or abuse drugs if she wants to get sober, stay sober, and start on the road to long-term recovery.

I am aware that there are some newly developed physician-prescribed drugs that can help Rachael avoid an alcohol or a drug relapse, help her through the alcohol and drug detox process, and help her through her withdrawal symptoms. Obviously it would be in Rachael’s best interests if she became conversant with these meds.

I would think that Rachael needs to accept the fact that there is completely nothing helpful about excessive and unhealthy drinking and chemical dependency and that involving herself in one or both situations is the map to financial difficulties, shattered relationships, poor work and school performance, legal problems, deteriorating health, and a premature death.

The Relevance of Support Groups Such as Alcoholics Anonymous and Narcotics Anonymous

There are more likely than not a lot of persons such as family members, other individuals, and friends who would like to help Rachael but she probably would experience greater tolerance from a recovery group such as Narcotics Anonymous or Alcoholics Anonymous instead of listening to individuals who rarely drink or who have never abused drugs.

When Individuals Do Things They Love and About Which They Are Passionate

There’s a school of thought in life that contends that people who accomplish things they love and something about which they are fervent arrive at a magnificent place in life. Stated differently, when people do what they love, they almost never experience an uneventful life or boredom. If they get involved in something that is enjoyable, furthermore, they become more whole and experience more satisfaction and joy in life.

To me, this sounds quite a bit different from a life that is rooted in alcohol and drug dependency because such a lifestyle removes the pleasure and delight that life offers.

Because Rachael doesn’t have the resolve to achieve much of anything in her life, it is evident that she definitely needs some hope for a better life. And the unfortunate thing is that hope is virtually everywhere around Rachael if she could only get to the place in life to get the counseling she requires for her manic depression and chemical dependency and remain in her treatment program.

A Stronger Sense of Spirituality, Constructive Change, Self Respect, and a Wonderful Life Are a Reality

Rachael is simply too young to be crushed in life. She doesn’t comprehend this at the moment but if she can learn how to refrain from alcohol and drugs via alcohol and drug rehab and get the counseling she needs for her bipolar condition, she can redirect her life and start living with self-respect, passion, and direction.

A stronger sense of spirituality, positive change, self esteem, and a wonderful life are certainly possibilities for Rachael if only she could become inspired to get the professional rehab she requires, follow through with her therapy regimen, live her life in a healthy and dependency-free manner, and cultivate a more positive attitude about her life.


Success Strategies : Bringing About Permanent Change In Your Life

Monday, March 15th, 2010
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Studies have shown that around 20% of our thoughts occur at a conscious level each day. The remaining 80% happen at the level of our subconscious.

So, would you be surprised to know that if only about 20% of what you really desire is currently present in your life, it may be that you need to spend some more time consciously working on what you are ‘inputting’ on a daily basis to affect what is happening to the other 80%?

So then, what is the recipe for change? As it isn’t possible to control what is happening at a subconscious level, we need to change our input at a conscious level. To do that, we need to do the following…

- Processes such as meditation, positive affirmations, and keeping a daily performance journal, all serve to to feed powerful affirming thoughts into the conscious mind, which then permeate into the subconscious mind.

- Whenever negative emotions rise, we need to put them straight out of our minds. Why? Because emotions are transitory. It takes a combination of emotion and though to generate a permanent feeling at a subconscious level, so by not thing about our negative emotions, then will quickly pass and will leave no mark on us.

- The subconscious can’t differentiate between ‘imaginary’ and ‘real’. So, in relation to our feelings, our subconscious can’t tell a ‘real’ past event from an ‘imagined’ one. By consistently consuming a daily diet of positive energy, in a relatively short space of time, perpetual positivity becomes our ‘reality’.

By following the above steps, we can gradually use the 20% of our thoughts that we have the power to control to bring about a positive change in the 80% which just ‘happen’, thus effecting the other 80% of stuff in our lives which feel out of our control.

This article was edited and distributed by Mark Walters on behalf of Mandy Swift, who was the original author. Read On : Success Strategies


You Make Me Feel

Wednesday, March 10th, 2010
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No one can give you a tin of unhappiness, or a bucket of joy. These things are not physical items that can be passed from person to person. They are intangible items that exist only in ourselves. In fact just the other day I was at a wedding. I told one of my friends how wonderful she looked and how much I liked her outfit. She leapt to the conclusion that I was being sarcastic and chose to be offended by what was a genuine compliment. Had I even been being sarcastic, she could have chosen to be complimented and replied with a, I’m glad you like it and felt better about herself. There was a guy I knew when I was younger. He was short, balding, spotty and he had been short changed in the looks department. Yet whenever we went out to bars, he'd wander up to any pretty woman and start talking to her. If she turned him down, he’s shrug his shoulders and continue. I don’t think it ever even occurred to him to feel bad about these rejections. He’d just smile and say, hour loss?and move on to the next one. Believe it or not, each of you are in control of yourself and how you feel. You can choose to feel anyway you want. Right now, you could choose to feel happy; or I am sure you could choose to feel sad. Just by thinking about it, you could change how you feel. It’s almost magic isn’t it? So what about choosing how you feel when you are interacting with other people?

The vast majority of people run on auto-pilot. They allow their body and mind to more or less get on with it, not worrying too much about the programs that are running or the condition of it. It doesn't interfere with them too much so they allow it to get on with it. It’s like watching all the cars driving around a city and not realising there is someone inside controlling them. Most people have forgotten there is this person?inside of them controlling them. If you choose, you can take back control of how you feel and stop relying on other people to meet certain conditions. When you go to the office and someone says, food Morning?to you, you can choose to grumble and mutter, There’s nothing good about it.?Or, you can choose to reply in kind and say, it’s a fantastic morning. That is, you can choose to feel bad or choose to feel good. Which do you prefer? Realise that you are the only person who can make you feel anything and stop allowing the people around you to make you feel bad. Decide to feel good and enjoy yourself.

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Success Strategies - Action And Tenacity Are A Must

Tuesday, March 2nd, 2010
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With the amount of success strategies around it is easy to become overwhelmed. In fact, there are so many that lots of people spend so much time reading about the different ones that they never really get around to implementing any of them.

The thing is, that pretty much all success strategies are, essentially, based around two words, and once you know what they are, and what the real meaning of them is, then any strategy that you choose to implement can bring you success.

So then, what are those two words? One is action, and the other is tenacity.

Action can be broken down into two parts. You first need to establish the right type of action to take, and you then need to follow fully through with that action - nothing short of 100% effort, no holds barred, action will suffice.

It is no good sitting at home thinking about what action needs to be taken, you need to be out there following through with it. A great quote to bear in mind is this “Every person who has ever slept knows what it is to dream. It is the person who gets out of bed and takes action on that dream who will know success”.

Now, lets move on to the second word - tenacity. This means that once you set your sights on something, you need to chase it for as long as is necessary to get your hands on and, once you have your hands on it, you need to never let go of it.

I am not talking about a blinkered approach here, as if you go headlong charging blindly towards your dream, blinkers on, no peripheral vision, you will as likely to charge straight past your target as it comes hurtling towards you as you will be to get your hands on it.

A quote fits nicely in here - “Success seems to be largely a matter of holding on after others have let go”.

This means that there will always be lots of people going after the same opportunities and, normally, only a handful, maybe even just one, can succeed. If you want that to be you, then you have to keep at it longer and harder than the others that you are competing against.

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Want Success? Then Set Goals And Work Hard And Smart To Achieve Them

Tuesday, March 2nd, 2010
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The setting of goals, and then working hard and smart to achieve them, is a significant habit that separates the 5% of people who are in successful in life from the 95% who are not. If you are currently within that 95%, then by learning how to properly set and achieve goals, you can become successful too.

It is important to pay attention to the working hard and smart part of goal setting, as simply setting goals is not enough. Plenty of people within the unsuccessful 95% regularly set goals, but then they forget about them, which means that they may as well not have bothered to set them in the first place.

A self-assessment is necessary then: Are you setting goals? Are your working hard? Are you working smart?

If you answered ‘no’ to any of those questions, or even if you answered ‘yes’ to all of them but things are still not working out for you, then it is time to change your approach.

A goal setting system that you should consider is one created by Lanny Bassham, who is a 3 times World Champion & Olympic Gold Medalist. Here is an outline of that system…

1) Decide exactly what you want.

2) Decide when you want it.

3) Establish what benefits you stand to gain from it.

4) Determine the obstacles in your way.

5) Evaluate what achieving it will also take away from you, such as time, money or people.

6) Write an overall action plan.

7) Break the overall action plan into a daily routine.

8) Start right now, not next week, month or year.

9) Have a succession of future goals lined to be achieved after the first one.

10) Never, never quit.

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Goal Setting

Sunday, February 21st, 2010
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Goal Setting Tools

While science is at its most advanced state today, there remains to be a lot of things to juggle for a typical friends-oriented person. For most family-oriented men, there is the burden of juggling work, career, family and other factors involved in one’s social life.

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The answer is Time Management. Most successful men are often asked about what their secret to success is. And more often than not, they have the same response, and that is Productivity. However, although this is almost an expected response, many are still baffled at how Productivity really works.

Goal Setting is quite simply the proper allocation of time for certain tasks. First, the important tasks have to be arranged in a certain way where it is clustered into sectors and listed according to urgency and importance. For example, the important parts of your life are friends, your daughter, your home, your art, and your family. You have to know which one to drop first whenever you need to do something.

After that, you will need help from some Goal Setting Gear designed to aid you in the right process of prioritization AND remembering that order.

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Goal Setting Tools & Time Management Techniques

There are a lot of women who need lots of reminder when it comes to taking care of home based businesses. Often, they are too home based that they are disregarded as unimportant. If you are one of them, buy some quick-and-easy Reminders. What’s good about technology is you can probably put a tickler just about everywhere! Mobile phones nowadays have built-in organizers, post-its are available in different variants, and even the good old refrigerator door magnets have come in a lot of forms.

What is important is that the frequency of the reminding is now being increased. This is good for Productivity because it keeps you aware of the things which you have to do especially if they’re urgent.

The organzing device of your choice + Watch Tandem

These are staples for just about every busybody from the college beadle to the corporate leader. The organizer is something that holds your appointments and it’s also a tiny little space for some writing. People who are busy all the time usually have contact numbers of random women they meet, gifts for a not-so-relevant birthday party that he has to go to or some sudden brilliant ideas that come to mind. For these and more, you will need an organziing device of your choice. It has to be a little agenda, just enough to fit in a small handbag, and should be made of durable material. You must bring your organzing device of your choice with you every day, in case you need to list something down as a reminder.

Moreover, the perfect complement to an organizer is a high-quality watch. Just because your watch didn’t work well You may have experienced running late for an appointment.  What’s worse is that the person you’re meeting wouldn’t even believe you. This blunder can easily be avoided. Just get a high quality watch. Having a good sense of time is practically the first step in Time Management & Goal Setting.

The Perfect manner of thinking

It’s pressuring to know that you have a lot of things in your hand and it seems like you can’t even do anything about it. Don’t tip over.

Moreover, keep a be on your toes kind of manner of thinking as you maneuver your way into your busy life. Sure, there are times when you distance yourself from your organizer. For some, it is a painful reminder of the busy life they lead. It’s perfectly alright to feel some sence of urgency but take some time off once in a while. You must never forget yourself in your list of tasks.

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How To Achieve Happiness

Wednesday, February 10th, 2010
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It is important that we set ourselves goals in life, these can be short term, over a longer period of one to five years and also lifetime goals. It is one thing setting yourself these targets, however it is another thing to actually achieve them.

Write down your goals

I have always wanted to be a success and to have a happy life, I am sure this is the same for most people. In the early part of my life I was unable to achieve both of these aims; this was partly because I had a stuttering problem. In my early to mid twenties I decided to attempt to learn about ways in which I could ensure that the future would be a lot better, than what the past had been. I soon began to read literature about these subjects in my quest to improve my life~I soon began to read literature about these subjects in my quest to improve my life}.

I soon realised the importance of setting goals and targets and was hopeful that this could help me to stop stuttering. I thought about what I wanted to be and which course I wanted my life to take. In the end I wrote out 3 different lists which of course including my future goals.

The first list included what I wanted to achieve within the next twelve months. The second list contained what I wanted to achieve within five years and the third list was my lifetime goals - one of which was to own my own company selling composite front doors.

Avoid negative people

There are people out there who try to bring me down. They attempt to do this by off the cuff comments they make or just by the way they seem to look down on me~Nasty comments, dirty looks and gossiping were all things that these nasty people would do}. They look at me as If I am worthless and some kind of loser. These type of people have caused me many sleepless nights and have had a negative affect on my self-confidence.

Quite simply the answer to this problem is to stay away from them, this is not always easy however~I knew that I had to steer well clear from these bad influences; this can however be easier said than done}.

I am pleased to report that I have now overcome the speech impediment - life is now far much happier for me.

I also own a business and also work on a part-time basis working along side a business cost reduction specialist.

As you can see life is now so much better for me and I am sure that it could be for you.

 


How Great is the Strength of Your Belief?

Monday, February 1st, 2010
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Take care what you believe as a result of that’s what you’ll experience. Your belief system is a mechanism that is uniquely yours. It is powered by your need and controlled by your thoughts and actions. In alternative words, your success is measured by the strength of your belief.

What is it that you just desire? Usually people do not have a clue what it’s they want, they simply understand what they do not want. Currently may be a smart time to evaluate your goals and confirm the end result you would like to achieve. Put your goals in writing and place them where you can see them throughout the day. Browse them frequently to keep them recent on your mind.

•    Be inquisitive. Research and learn as much as you can on how you’ll be able to achieve your goal. Use all potential resources such as books, CDs, courses and people. Yes, people. Talk to as several people as doable who are already successful in what you wish to achieve. Raise, raise and raise some a lot of about what they did to achieve success. Do not limit your contacts to solely the people you already know. Introduce yourself by phone or mail, make a case for your purpose for contacting them and raise for a tip. The worst issue that may happen {is that they} ignore you. The best issue which will happen {is that they} become your mentor and supply support and encouragement. Probabilities are you may receive at least one great tip from many of the individuals you contact. This technique is the least expensive and most rewarding.

•    Be unique. Next, take the concepts you learn, embellish them and return up with your own creative process. Suppose of how you’ll approach your goal in a means that no one else has. Dare to be different. Don’t be afraid to require risks. What do you’ve got to loose? Write out a listing showing the worst things that would happen and then list all of the most effective potential outcomes. Perpetually maintain your concentration on your desired result.

•    Be higher than your competition. After you were a kid and saw your older siblings or friends riding a bike (without training wheels), you didn’t study their scraped knees and elbows and say, “Whoa, I could get hurt doing that.” Instead, you begged to strive it for yourself. With a nice deal of follow and often pain, you gradually learned how to keep up your balance. Presently you were trying to “out do” your friends along with your speed or fancy tricks. Once you fell, you’d retreat to on and strive once more with even greater determination. From your very initial effort, you believed in your mind that if you got back on, you’d eventually learn to ride. I bet you even knew in your mind you would be the simplest within the neighborhood, in your college, within the state, in the planet!  

•    Be positive. If you see obstacles before you, then you will conjointly solely see problems. If you have got hesitations that you propose will not work, then it will not work. If you’re influenced by the ability of negative people, then you will never be any better than they are. Believe in yourself and what you are capable of achieving.  

When your want to succeed is stronger than the pain, worry or frustration of failing, there is no turning back. I challenge you to read your goals simply like you did when you were a child before you learned about self doubt and negative criticism. Remember, something is attainable as long as you believe. Create a commitment that you may not let anything or anyone, including yourself stand in your approach of reaching your goals.

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